Deep-throating is a form of oral sex in which a man’s erect penis is entirely inserted into your mouth. It goes deep into the mouth, past the epiglottis and into the receiving partner’s throat. In order to practice this, get in a position where you can turn your head in a way that your mouth and throat lie almost in a straight line. The best position to accomplish this is to lay on the bed with your head near the edge and body sprawled across the bed so that the head is tipped sharply back. This position allows you to put your mouth and throat nearly in a line and will allow your partner to approach you and insert his penis with his pubic hair pressed against your lips.
The natural tendency of the body is to gag when something is being forced down your throat. To overcome this, relax your throat when the insertion is made. It is equally important that you maintain this relaxation during the entire ordeal.
Let him put his penis down your throat and hold it still while you find the most comfortable way to proceed. Due to your position, you will not be able to move or offer him any greater stimulation than simply keeping your mouth closed tightly around his penis. If you are able to, stimulate the bottom side of the penis with your tongue.
You will only be able to relax and take his penis in if you completely trust your partner. Your partner is in complete control. He must initiate and maintain all the motion. This is the only exercise in which you relinquish your control of the situation. He will more than likely take advantage of the new-found control and insert his penis deep down your throat. Now your partner should begin with an in and out movement just as if he were fucking you. He should start slowly, especially if this is a new experience for both of you. His only other requirement during this is to keep the motion in the same direction, there is no way he can vary the motion from side to side.
When you relax your throat and your partner is thrusting, you cannot breath while the penis is in your throat. Being able to relax your throat is only half of what you must do because taking breaths as your partner pulls back or as you pull back is the other half. This requires some practice. The first reaction might be to panic – that you might not have enough air -, but most of the trust should come from knowing that your partner will pull back in predictable intervals. That should give you enough time to breath in or breath out.
One word of caution. Do not let your partner get carried away when he starts to ejaculate. At that moment, he will be able to thrust his penis all the way inside your oral cavity and this is the most important lesson. His only other requirement during the exercise is to keep the motion in the same direction against your lips as he does this. Due to the position on the bed, you will not be face with the problem of swallowing his semen. The reason is because he has his penis beyond your gag reflex. Without a condom, his semen will shoot directly into your stomach. If both of you understand what it is that you’re doing, there should be no harm or discomfort for either of you.
It is possible that not everyone will learn this technique. You must allow your throat to relax completely while your partner is thrusting his penis deeply down your throat. To do this long enough for your partner to ejaculate is very difficult and may require a lot of practice. Don’t be afraid to slowly get used to it. It may be that you will be able to take your partner down your throat completely, but you will not be able to maintain proper relaxation of your throat until he cums. Hopefully, your partner will understand that this is not a rejection of him or what he’s offering. If he does feel that way, do not try this technique again.
The taste of cum varies from person to person. It’s been said that it tastes mild to tangy depending on the food ingested. Some have a taste for it, some do not.
